I like to consider myself the Queen of Christmas. Christmas is my jam. Every year I think I couldn’t possibly get any more “into” it but every year I do. For me, it’s all consuming. But in a good way.
I used to put the tree up and decorate on the last weekend of November, then it was the week before that, then the weekend before, and this year, the tree went up November 19th. It gets earlier and earlier every year. And I’m ok with that, thankfully so is my family. Rex also loves Christmas, he doesn’t get super into the indoor decorating and rarely helps us with the tree, but the outdoor lights are where he shines (pun intended). If I didn’t know better I would swear he was part Clark Griswold when it comes to decorating the house and yard. The more lights, the more colour, the better. I’m pretty sure one of these years our house will actually be visible from space.
So as the self-appointed Queen of Christmas I thought I should share some tips for making the season easier! Most of the tips I am going to share with you are what I do, there are a few that I don’t but they are great tips anyway.
Wrapping paper:
My first tip is to give each member of your family their own colour or style of wrapping paper. We have 3 children between us; 2 adult children (21 and 23) and an 8 year old. The adult children both have spouses which means there are 7 of us that have presents under the tree. And 7 of us that still get a stocking to open on Christmas. I mean, seriously, I would give up the “big” presents before I would give up the stockings. It’s my favorite part. I always wrap everything that goes in the stockings. My mom always did, and I will never stop doing it. Half of the fun of Christmas is the actual unwrapping part. Which means I have a lot of wrapping to do in the weeks leading up to Christmas, and a LOT of little wrapped presents. So I make it easier on myself and give everyone their own wrapping paper. I never need to label anything and when the kids come over they have no idea who’s gifts are who’s until I hand them their stockings. I feel like it makes it more fun. I also like to try to pick wrapping paper that fits their personalities a bit. This year some of them aren’t even Christmas themed. This year we have Dr. Seuss, Minnie Mouse, Frosty the Snowman, Frozen, Unicorns, a red Ho Ho Ho one and a white with red snowflakes.
Stock Up:
Stock up during the year on basics when they go on sale. For instance, Bath and Body Works easily makes my Top 10 list for favorite stores to shop. They always have wicked deals on if you’re not looking for something specific. This last week when I was there the hand soaps were 5 for $25 or 10 for $35. Clearly I needed 10 (insert my husbands eye roll here…). They make fantastic stocking stuffers and who doesn’t love a great smelling foaming hand soap??? Good thing none of my kids read this blog or they would know they’re all getting hand soap in their stockings! You’re welcome. It’s times like this that I feel like Oprah; You get a hand soap, You get a hand soap, You get a hand soap, Everyone gets a hand soap!! Stores like this are also good for stocking up on body washes and lotions, 3 wick candles (which are my FAVORITE!), and hand sanitizers. All of which are really really good at filling stockings relatively inexpensively. Plus it’s another one of those gifts were everyone gets the same thing but they’re all different smells and they can trade if they want to! Those kind of gifts are the best ones. A few years ago we bought packages of Hot Wheels cars for everyone. I think there were 20 cars in each package and the kids spent a good hour trading cars back and forth with each other until they were satisfied with their “garage”. So fun to watch!
Sticky Situation:
Next up are my tape tips. I’m not super fussy about brand, to me, tape is tape. If it comes off the dispenser easily and sticks 2 pieces of paper together, I’m good. That being said, a few years back I stumbled across the Scotch brand Pop Up tape dispenser. O. M. G. That thing is a life changer. It has a little elastic band thing on the back so it sits on your hand and it dispenses these perfect little pieces of tape. Only problem this year is I didn’t realize I was out of refills until this morning and there is no one nearby that sells them. So Amazon to the rescue once again. But they won’t be here for a week. So I’m stuck going old school. Wrapping presents requires the full use of both hands so unless you have an elf to cut pieces of tape for you as you need them you should probably just prepare ahead and line the edge of your work surface with precut pieces. I find this the easiest way when I’m wrapping by myself (which is honestly how I prefer it. Nobody to judge my bad singing…)
Playing Fair:
I like to make sure that all of the kids have the same number of presents to open and that they are all even when it comes to $$ spent on them. My parents did a great job of doing that when we were growing up and it’s something I feel very strongly about. We don’t love any one of our children more than another, so we always do our best to make it fair. That being said, we have such fabulous children, I don’t think any of them would even notice, let alone say anything, if something wasn’t totally even. Because I wrap so early and I have such a terrible memory, I often forget what each of the shiny little packages are so I keep a little notebook next to me when I’m wrapping and write down everything that I have wrapped for each child. It’s easy to see who I still need to pick up a thing or two for and it’s easy for me to figure out what package is what if I need to. The real trick here is keeping it somewhere that prying little eyes can’t see it, luckily only 1 of our children still lives at home so I can pretty much hide it anywhere higher than 5ft and she can’t reach it.
Budgeting:
If you’re on a tight budget (seriously though? Are there people who don’t have to watch every $?) one of the best tips I saw was to stash some money away each month through the year. $50 a month gives you $600 in December to spend on xmas presents. If you can’t be trusted not to dip into it, purchase a gift card each month and use them to buy presents (or give the gift cards). Prepaid Visa cards are accepted pretty much everywhere, even online, so it makes it a whole lot easier to buy presents when you can space it out over the year. It just requires a little forethought. This is one of the those tips that I see and I think “Wow that’s a great idea, I’m totally going to do this”. Then don’t. But seriously. This year I am going to do this.
We can’t all be Martha Stewart:
I feel like I have mentioned before how much I love Martha Stewart. Love might not be the appropriate word. Idolize seems more adequate. There is nothing that woman can’t do. Have you ever watched Martha and Snoop Doggs cooking show? It’s gold. Pure gold. I try to channel that woman every single day of my life. She inspires me to garnish every meal, find home decor in my back yard, and always keep my insider trading information to myself. But seriously. I can’t tell you how many times I have been called Martha Stewart in my 36 years on this planet. Honestly, I get called it a lot. It’s one of my favorite nicknames. But when it comes to wrapping stocking stuffers I no longer feel the need to “Martha” them up. Yep, I just used her name as a verb. I used to fret about how each little item was wrapped but I don’t anymore. Not once in the last 36 years has anyone ever commented on my wrapping skills, good or bad. So why am I stressing about it? Nobody notices if the corners aren’t folded exactly right. Nobody. Once you realize that and accept it, it feels very freeing. Like a huge weight has been lifted from your shoulders. Or is that just me taking this whole Christmas thing too seriously?
Somehow this turned into a really long post. Sorry about that. In case you haven’t realized it yet, I love to ramble, especially when I’m talking about something near and dear to my heart. As it’s only November 28th, I’m sure I will have a whole lot more tips about Christmas for you so this will probably turn into a 2 part mini series.
Before I post I’ll leave you with some quick tips that require no explanation:
-buy Christmas cards after December 25th for the following year when they are dirt cheap. Stash them with your xmas decorations
– same with decorations. I rarely buy full price decor, I just wait till it’s on clearance and use it the following year
-keep cookie dough in the freezer, or even baked cookies usually freeze well in case of unexpected company
-be sure to be well stocked for coffees, teas, and hot cocoas during this season of visitors
-don’t throw scraps of paper away, you never know when you need a small piece to wrap a Chapstick
-remember: it’s thoughtful to wrap a toothbrush and put it in a stocking, it’s a dirtbag move to wrap a toothbrush and put it under the tree